I was my parents’ principal caregiver for ten years. I have first-hand experience in helping aging parents, dealing with family dynamics, protecting parents from elder abuse and working with public and private organizations.
Do you have a question for me? Please email your questions to: mary@caregivingmatters.ca
An important note: I love answering your questions, but I also encourage you to seek professional legal, financial, or medical assistance.
Mary
Posted on April 19, 2013
What would she do if you did not live close by? It would be all on her shoulders to manage won’t it?
Posted on February 10, 2013
“Many seniors give into their adult children’s wishes too much. They see us as weak and easy to persuade.”
Posted on January 09, 2013
Do you remember this expression from when we were kids? Well, my brother is the liar.
Posted on November 28, 2012
My question is about money. I know I spend some of my own money on things for him and forget to ask him for the money.
Posted on October 09, 2012
I am so worried for my Dad. He is 83 and still driving. How can I persuade him to give up driving? It would be safer for him and everyone in his town.
Posted on August 14, 2012
Is that how people will remember you, on your death bed?
Posted on July 29, 2012
I try and take care of my parents and there are many times when I wish I could share what is happening to them and me with my husband. He does not want to hear anything about what is going on.
Posted on July 20, 2012
My brother lives close to our parents and does most of the things to help them and take care of them. I live 2 thousand miles away. I am always feeling guilty for not being there and helping out. Do you have any suggestions for me?
Posted on July 08, 2012
Don’t get me wrong. I love my Mom, help her as much as I can, but she is driving me crazy.
Posted on April 09, 2012
My Dad is having trouble making decisions, even simple ones. How can I help him?
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